Unrealistic Expectations

Got this in the mail today. I guess it is some kind of reminder of the Order of Withholding. What is the phrase, "Can't get blood from a stone" or something like that? Hell, I'm fighting to keep my head above water while the ex is plowing through her $400,000.00 trust! She's sporting the new SUV, bought a farm in Cle Elm and is building a house on it. The kids are enjoying their new bikes, Max my 8 year old has a new bunk bed, a TV in in his room with his new Play Station 2, while she lounges on her new king size bed. I'm glad life is so good for her! But let's be real, how am I supposed to come up with this kind of cash? I was current with my child support obligations (for the first 12 months) as long as I had the money. When the shop closed, that changed everything. Hey, I'm not going to let this get me down. She'll get her money as soon as I have it.