Fucked in 3 different counties
Not quite sure what any of this means, but I'm positive that it's only a matter of time before someone makes it painfully clear to me what it all means.
I know I can't pay money that I don't have. I can pay what I can, when I can (sent $300 last week). And I know that the Child Support Enforcement Officer doesn't want to hear anything I have to say. She has made it quite clear, what school of extortion she graduated from. . . with honors, no less.
posted by Tom Frank at 6:56 PM
10 Comments:
You must call an atty. FIND OUT WHAT
options you have where. Don't let this get worse that it is already.
11:15 PM
I don't have money for child support. I REALLY don't have money for a lawyer. My ex-wife's $400,000.00 trust came due a month after she filed for divorce. My kids don't aren't hurting for anything and neither is she. She has spent over $40,000 on a campaign of hate. I refuse to participate. I will pay my back child support when I can. Until then. . . you can't get blood from a stone. That's just the way it is.
12:41 AM
What kind of message are you sending to your children when you don't meet your obligations?
12:47 PM
Great question. It's not that I don't want to meet my obligations. . . . the funds simply aren't there. I am trying to make more money, it's a challenge. When we were married I could afford my family and household, trying to pay for two households is a different story. Perhaps you have some words of wisdom about how to make this all work. . . . I'm all ears.
3:57 PM
You are a coward, Anonymous (2nd anonymous). You are also incredibly naive or fantastically stupid. And it's only because this is someone else's blog that I don't type what I *really* think about your comment.
Tom, I understand the financial aspect, but don't confuse protecting yourself with entering into a campaign of hate. They are not the same thing.
Jay Jennings
6:45 PM
tom & jay...all i am saying is that there is another way...its called getting a job to pay off the debt....don't give up on the magic...just don't count on it being #1...
10:15 PM
What your ex doesn,t understand is the harm she is doing to the kids by not trying to find solutions instead of causing more problems. She must be very frightened.
10:36 PM
God bless you Jay Jennings. Well said.
11:16 PM
Back in November I did get a job (making less that I am making now) Because it was a real job (Managing the Retail Store at the Childrens Museum) it didn't take long for the writ of garnishement to start taking half of what I was making. The job paid $26,000 a year. . . . I was supposed to live on half of that!? I don't think so.
6:38 AM
With my teenage son (from a previous marriage) living with me. I will get my act together, I will get caught up on back child support (by the way half of that big number was Spousal Maintence awarded to a woman with far more assets than I)
Life is a journey, everything will work out fine.
6:41 AM
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