In my "In Box"

Got the email from my step brother in Atlanta

Tom,

I have kept up with your trials thanks to your e-mails and posts. Although there isn't much I can do, and by the sounds of it even you can do, I wanted to let you know that I really feel for you. When I was separated I always thought to myself that eventually the kids will be old enough to make their own decisions and they will realize what type of dad I was/am. One day when they are old enough they will see who their dad really is without the veil of manipulation their mother has thrown over this situation.

You should maintain your integrity, fight the reasonable fight and be the dad that you can be... The kids will always love you and your life with them will really begin fully when the government and your x don't have control anymore. I realize you have probably thought about this... But I just wanted to remind you that you have another 40 years to spend with them. 40 years that will include graduations, weddings, trips and whatever you want to do with them - that's when the real magic will begin. I know this doesn't make it easier now, but hang in there pal.

Take care of yourself, we're with you.

Love, Thomas